We are so thankful for this blessing! After waiting so long and going through so much to get here, we're just thrilled.
Here’s the story of our first doctor appointment! (pregnant lady's point of view)
The appointment was for 8:20 am on Friday, March 5th. We walk everywhere, of course, so we left the house about 30 minutes before that. We were afraid that we weren't going to make it, so we opted to catch the bus that would take us to "downtown". Once there, we remembered we needed cash to pay the doctor, so we ran to our bank and got some.
We weren't really sure where the doctor's office was because we'd only looked at in on Google maps. It's on a little side street that Google didn't even really show on the map. Anyway, we found it without any real problems, but we were rushing and rushing and all I could think was, "Great, now I'm going to be all sweaty for this examination."
However, when we arrived at the door and buzzed the bell, no one answered. So we waited a few minutes until someone came in with a pass key. Most offices here are in large buildings that house other offices and sometimes residential apartments too. The front door is usually locked and you have to buzz up to the place where you want to go to be let in.
The office was on the second floor, and we were greeted by a woman who directed us to a little waiting room. We didn't sit there long, maybe 2 minutes. The doctor herself, Dr. Charra, came and got us and we went to her office.
First, she did a general consult time. She asked a lot of questions, (yes, all in French) and we answered them. I had written out my rather extensive medical history for her and she read over it, making notes of when all my surgeries took place. She understood us, which was great. We mostly understood her and were able to clarify what she meant when we didn't. All in all, pretty satisfying as far as a language experience goes. Not perfect, but we'll take it.
The French doctors count the pregnancy differently than US doctors do. According to the internet (my source for US info), I'm 9 weeks pregnant and the due date is October 9th or 10th. According to Dr. Charra, I'm 7 weeks pregnant, and the due date is October 16th.
Next, she had me go around this corner to a sort of nook in her office for the examination. I had to remove all my clothes- no gown! and she checked me out. The funniest moment was when the doctor was feeling the size of my uterus. She said something that I've loosely translated as, "You feel good and pregnant!"
After that we went to the ultrasound room, where John joined us. She put the jelly stuff on my stomach and away we went. What a moment to see a tiny perfect little baby there! WOW! When she let us hear the heartbeat, it was amazing- such a miracle moment! Then I was laughing and the baby moved too! I was starting to get all emotional when I realized the doctor was still talking and I reminded myself I could be emotional later and to pay attention to the French words coming out of her mouth. =)
According to Dr. Charra, everything looks great. She said my uterus is a little big (2nd doctor to tell me that.... hmm) but everything looks fine, just as it should. The baby is just 2cm long but we could clearly see the head, the body, and the little arms and legs that are starting to grow.
We went back to her desk and she wrote out our bill. This is the 2nd time we've seen a doctor here, and both times we've paid the doctor directly in cash. Funny, huh?
After we left the doctor's office, we had to go to the lab just around the corner to have blood work done. They took like 9 little vials of my blood. Whew! Then they gave me a little cup to take home for a urine sample and told me to bring it back Saturday morning. I went back to the lab to pick up all the results a few days later. They also had to get another vial of blood for some test that must be done twice, so I did that too.
We went back to Dr. Charra March 31st. The ultrasound picture is from this second visit. The baby is now 10cm from head to toe!
Doing all this in a different country, in a different language, for the first time is a little challenging. I'm happy to have all the info, all the experience I can get. I will also see a midwife for info, etc., because that's what they do here. I think this will be an interesting experience!
